I've been told there are three kinds of people in the world: There are those who MAKE things happen; there are those who WATCH things happen; and then there are those who wonder: WHAT HAPPENED?!!! I am the one who fall into the last category, when it comes to love and romance in my lives. How to make things happen? There is a time to make things happen and a time to let things happen? This old prayer may help clarify: God, grant me the wisdom to change the things that I can, accept the things that I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference. Sometimes the best thing to do is to just sit back and watch things unfold. We can continue to fight, but some situations will only chew us up if we try.