<p align="center"><font color="#800080" size="4" face=華康行書體> 生命之謎就是:<br/> 我們不知道~~<br/> 會在什麼地方下車?<br/> 會在什麼時候下車?<br/> 坐在身旁的旅伴,會在什麼地方下車?<br/> 又會在什麼時候下車?<br/> </font></p>
<div align="center"><img src="http://7.blog.xuite.net/7/d/d/c/10755757/blog_944136/txt/14188142/7.gif"/><img src="http://palankr.com.ne.kr/img3/fuchsiablnk1.jpg"/></div> <br/> <div align="center"><table style="width:180px;height:163px;" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" background="http://palankr.com.ne.kr/img3/fuchsiablnk1.jpg"></div> <br/> <br/> <br/> <div align="center"> <marquee style="width: 598px; height: 313px;" direction="up" height="313" width="598" scrollamount="1" scrolldelay="100"> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" size="4"><span style="font-family: 標楷體;" face="標楷體"><strong><b><span style="font-size: 18pt; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">● </span></b></strong><strong><b><span style="font-size: 18pt; color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;"><em>一句話 </em><span style="font-size: 18pt; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US">●</span></span></b></strong></span></span><span style="color: #800080;" color="#800080"><span style="font-size: 12pt; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><span style="color: #000000;" color="#000000"></span><br /><br /></span></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">人生的成敗,常常因為一個人、一件事,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">甚至『一句話』而有決定性的影響。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">尤其「對人有用」的一句話,勝過千言萬語!</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">古今中外有很多人因為別人的一句話而深受感</span></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">動,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">甚至</span></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">豁然開朗;</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">由於「一句話」而改變一生的事例,更是多不勝數!</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">美國著名的教育家和演講口才藝術家「卡內基」,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">小時候是一個非常調皮的小男孩。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">他九歲的時候,父親將繼母娶進門。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">他父親向新婚妻子介紹卡內基時,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">如是說:「希望你注意這個全郡最壞的男孩,他實在令我頭痛,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">說不定明天早晨他還會拿石頭砸你,或做出什麼壞事呢!」</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">出乎「卡內基」預料的是,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">繼母微笑地走到他面前,托著他的頭,注視著他。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">接著告訴丈夫:</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">「你錯了,他不是全郡最壞的男孩,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">而是最聰明、只是還沒找到發洩熱忱地方的男孩。」</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">此話一出,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">「卡內基」的眼淚不聽使喚地滾滾而下。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">就因為這一句話,建立了卡內基和繼母之間深厚的感情;</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">也因為這一句話,成就了他立志向上的動力;</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">更因為這一句話,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">讓他日後幫助千千萬萬的人一同步上了成功之路。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">「一句話」很容易說,但重要的是要能讓對方受用。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">失落著的生命再造,不一定要靠能言善道的人來開導,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">有時僅僅是一句「看起來普通的話」,就能為對方帶來「力量」。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">佛教六祖「惠能大師」原是樵夫,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">因為聽到《金剛經》裡「應無所住而生其心」這句話,</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">若有所悟,進而尋師訪道,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">後來在五祖弘忍大師座下舂米八月,開悟見性。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">「丹霞禪師」本來要進京趕考,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">因為聽到一句「選官不如選佛」而出家學佛,精進修持,</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;"></span></span> </div> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">成為禪宗一代祖師。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">生命是一種學習,任何人在學習的過程中不免遇到困難和迷惑。</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">給人一句好話,讓人生命奮起飛揚,何樂而不為呢?</span></span><span style="color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">所以,人要常說:</span></span></b></strong><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">第一、給人歡喜的話;</span></span></b></strong></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">第二、給人鼓勵的話;</span></span></b></strong></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">第三、給人肯定的話;</span></span></b></strong></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">第四、給人讚歎的話。</span></span></b></strong></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">多說好話,少說壞話。</span></span></b></strong></b><b><span style="font-weight: bold; color: purple; font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="font-family: Arial;">●</span></span></b></strong></span><strong><b><span style="color: #00ffff; font-family: 標楷體; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;">不經意的一句輕浮話,有時會自毀前程;</span></span></b></strong></b></div> <b><strong><b><span style="color: purple; font-family: 新細明體;"></span></b></strong></b></marquee> <div style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal" align="center"></div> <p align="center"> </p> <marquee style="width: 598px; height: 313px;" direction="up" height="313" width="598" scrollamount="1" scrolldelay="100"><span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="color: #00ffff; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">而一句關懷別人的話,卻能讓沮喪的人有生存下去的勇氣。</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="color: purple;" lang="EN-US"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: #00ffff; font-size: 14pt;" size="4" face="標楷體" color="#00ffff"><span style="color: purple;">因此,人要經常檢點自己的口舌,以免破壞了好因、好緣阿</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 標楷體;"><span style="color: #00ffff; 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