Ming Chen i dont know........ normal isnt a bad thing.....is it???
i think license is the only thing meaningful to me for now......... i have no idea...... but i think i am not able to get it......
On Mar 27, 2006, at 4:29 PM, Hisashi Matsui wrote: I do not know what to say. But, I know that;
……….age is just a number. ……….you do not need to compare you with other guys. That’s disrespectful to yourself. ……….other people might have something you do not and you wish. But you are getting something others just dreaming and / or giving up. ……….life is short but still long enough. ……….you are doing what you can do only NOW.
Terminating a career in home country and coming to US was the biggest risk. You are getting something back for what you have done. If you go back to Taiwan now, then your years in the US becomes just the waste. It’s time to give some meaning to your coming to US. I guess…
Ming Chen i am fine...... still alive..... i am just wanting what the other people do in my age a little more i always ask myself....."is that worth to do this?? stay in States?? what gonna change once i go back to Taiwan??" i still didnt figure out..... i paid so much things, i sacrificed so much, but what i got?? so far..... nothing just a nobody in a big name firm!!
i am already 30...... but i am still wondering what should i do, where should i go... and i still have no damn clue.... sometimes i look at other people out there in my age.... they have a so different life than i do..... sometimes i look at my friends in Taiwan.... they are having a happier life than i do..... i always ask myself....."why should i spend my youth here alone and abroad?? "
i dont know.......
On Mar 27, 2006, at 3:46 PM, Hisashi Matsui wrote:
Hey Mr. Ming How have you been? Lauren said you are in bad mood. Is that true?
Come on man, you are in good situation to get to your potential. If you work for the guy you can respect and put your life into it, then you will see the difference within a few years.
For a few years of hard work, say 80 working hours per week, made an untalented guy turn into somewhat useable. I am talking about myself.
You know I have no talent, but still surviving in this foreign country despite so many obstacles. Can you imagine how far it can go if highly talented guy, like you, push as hard as you can for a period of time. You could be the greatest architect in the world.
Aren’t you having good time creating something will be admired by millions of people? Can’t you forget about having fun outside of office for while? If you have time and nothing to do much, then work for ARE exam.
Don’t spoil your talent and future. Be the best you can be. If you gave up on you, then DC and we will welcome you back anytime.
Hish P.S. I will not be in this office, though. |