There are 12 days till 2007. @};-A position a day: The asking your ex to leave. (C) Learn from the experts Some people seem to be born with great social skills. Watch and listen to them in social situations. How do they do things differently from you? (D) Tell them you are shy If you blush and stammer when you talk to people, tell them you are shy. However, you also need to tell them that you are trying to overcome your shyness. People are likely to be kinder and friendlier to you if they know you are making an effort. (E) Don't worry Don't worry if things don't always work out as you had hoped. If you smile at someone but they don't smile back, it does not mean you have failed. Don't let that influence your confidence. Many people have learned to overcome their shyness. @};-