04/11/11
When it comes to loving family and their secrets of success, it s always by doing the right thing. When you notice you re blaming and upsetting other family members, you are not going to go very far. In fact, things tend to get worse because others are either too angry or too upset to hear what you are really trying to tell them. So, the question is how? Simply put, don t irritate those you love; it shows disrespect and allows disconnection. Unless they are causing serious damage and you know it s definitely wrong/immoral, then you have every right to blame and explain to them. Otherwise, little things are not worth the fights.
When dealing with kids, it s the same. Some may say, "Use the staff of punishment for rocks to become jewels." But, this staff is really meant for guidance towards the right path, and it might cause much more harm than the good it does as you lay it on the kids. Kids, especially in their teens tend to be more difficult to deal with because they are no longer a baby and cannot be treated like a baby.